What is the twin flame age gap? 

Does it matter with twin flames if one of them is a lot older than the other? 

In society, there seems to be this rule that your partner should be roughly around the same age or the man should be a few years older than the woman.

It’s usually frowned upon when one person is older than the other.

But it is very common among twin flames that one is older, usually the divine feminine. 

So why there is that age gap? Does that matter at all?

In this article, we will explain why there is an age gap and whether or not you should worry about it. 

Let’s dive in!

 The Twin Flame Age Gap

Twin flame relationships are not your typical 3D relationships, and your age in this life does not matter what it would be in a ‘regular’ relationship. Sometimes you and your partner begin a new life at the same age, but this isn’t always the case.

It’s quite natural for twin flames to be of different ages, hence the twin flame age gap paradox, and we’ll discuss why.

What Is The Twin Flame Age Gap Paradox?

On average, one twin flame is usually older than the other. This is the twin flame age gap paradox and there are reasons for it. The universe doesn’t just randomly pick a card to decide which age each twin flame will be. 

If you have heard twin flame marriage stories, you know why this makes so much sense.

We’ll talk about that but first, I want to teach you about the twin flame signs, stages, and what is the twin flame reunion.

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Twin Flame Signs

Have you ever met someone who you believe is your twin flame but isn’t sure?

This is one of the most prevalent issues we encounter in our Facebook group, in the comment sections, and for good reason.

It might be difficult to determine whether someone is a twin flame or a soulmate.

Wouldn’t it be good to have a tiny checklist to help you confirm?

You just check the boxes and towards the end, you’ll know for sure.

But is there even one? Yes, there is!

That list includes 5 signs which are the following: The triggers: being unable to let them go, psychic confirmation, synchronicities, and the immediate feeling that you can be yourself.

You can read more about that in this article about the 5 signs that you have met your twin flame.

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Twin Flame Stages

Twin flames must go through eight major stages before they may be ‘reunited’ and finally be together forever.

These stages might take varying amounts of time, but every twin flame relationship must go through them.

The twin flame stages are the following in order: A yearning for the one, glimpsing or meeting them, falling in love, having the dream relationship, the turmoil stage, the running and chasing stage, and the surrender stage.

EVERY twin flame relationship must go through the twin flame stages.

Why? Because this is not your typical relationship.

This is unique, and there are several layers to it. There are certain things that need to be cleared up and sorted out before you can rejoin your twin flame.

But don’t give up because these phases can be sped up.

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Here’s a twin flame reunion fast-track course to help you get to your reunion faster. Divine timing is primarily a myth, and YOU may speed up the reunion.

Twin Flame Reunion

The twin flame reunion stage is the endgame. It’s a wonderful feeling, like returning home.

Only when you’re on the same vibrational level and ready will you be able to reunite.

This might take days, weeks, or even years, depending on the circumstances. It took a few months for Julia and me, and yes, we did go through the running stage.

However, once you reach the reunion, you generally remain together forever.

You’ll feel quite confident and comfortable in the relationship, and even if disagreements arise, you’ll never break up after you’ve reconciled.

You will see some twin flame reunion synchronicities to indicate that your reunion is about to come about.

If you’re interested in that, you can check out this article with the 7 signs twin flame reunion is near.

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Why Twin Flame Age Gaps Exist

So, why do twin flame age gaps exist, why is it so common, and does it matter? Let me answer your questions.

1: Balance Between Masculine And Feminine

Typically, the divine feminine is the older twin. This is because it is critical that the energies are balanced.

In earlier lives, the divine feminine may have handed away a lot of her power. Being the older twin in this incarnation increases the likelihood that the energies will be more balanced.

This was the situation with my relationship with my twin flame. We met when I was 27 and he was 25 years old.

I was 25 years old and very submissive, with a lot of frantic energy and poor self-esteem.

As a result, I feel it would have been extremely impossible to reunite if I had been 25 or younger than him when we met.

If you want to know the story of how we met, we tell that in detail in our twin flame reunion story. You might learn a thing or two from it.

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So this is why there is that age gap, there’s more of a balance between the masculine and the feminine. 

So in society, the man is usually older ut in twin flames, it’s usually the feminine that’s older. Not always, but usually.

This can be over 20 years older, it can be big gaps and this is completely normal. 

2: To Challenge Societal Norms

Another reason for the twin flame age gap paradox happening is that these obstacles and these societal norms that twin flames claim are here to challenge and overcome. 

Right. So it’s not only the age gap but also the culture, the religion being from different religions and which also are things that are frowned upon. 

But we’re here to show unconditional love. And these things are just circumstances does not define us.

Even physical location, like where you actually live. It’s so typical of twin flames to live in different countries and then be brought together.

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Not always, but in our case and in other cases as well. 

It’s like one will live in a random country and then the other one moves there. 

So it’s to challenge these ideas that we have to be from the same place, the same age, at the same race and even the same religion. 

To show that it’s really more about making a connection on a soul level, that’s the important thing.

3: Your Souls Are The Same Age

The physical body is the collection of systems that comprise human beings’ material nature, that is, what we physically see, touch, and feel.

The soul, on the other hand, is characterized as an entity that is abstract, immaterial, and has traits that extend far beyond the physical; it is connected with the spiritual and divine.

A twin-flame relationship is about the soul, and unlike the physical, where the body ages due to years, the soul does not age.

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It is something spiritual and divine. No matter how many years a soul has, it will not change for some number of years because the years in the spirit are just numbers.

After the soul was divided, they traversed through many lifetimes, with multiple reincarnations. What is deemed the physical body’s age has no bearing on the twin flame’s age.

On a soul level, you are the same age as your twin flame but in this reincarnation, they happen to be another age. 

Twin flames can have different ages physically but their souls are the same age since they are the result of a separation done to just one soul.

The mission is to show that love conquers all. It’s all about the soul connection. 

4: They’ll Always Find You Attractive

If you are a divine feminine who is older than your twin, don’t worry about it.

“My twin flame is 20 years younger. What if I turn 60? He’s not going to like me because I’m going to look old and saggy.”

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If this is the case with you, then don’t worry about it because like we said, it’s normal and it’s really just a small obstacle to overcome. 

It won’t make much of a difference anyway when you’re in a union.

Twin flame connections are all about vibration. Your twin and you are on exactly the same frequency and that makes you the sexiest woman alive for him. 

It’s not about appearances. He will always love you and he will always find you attractive. 

So let us know in the comments how old you are and how is your twin flame.

I am older than Stefan by about two years. 

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FAQs

Do You Marry Your Twin Flame Or Soulmate?

If you have a twin flame, it’s definitely your twin flame that you’re gonna end up marrying because your purpose for getting reincarnated on earth is to be together forever and fulfill a big purpose. If you don’t have a twin flame, then you will probably marry your soulmate.

Do Twin Flames Have The Same Career?

Because twin-flames are one and the same, they will also have similar career choices. This is a big advantage and leads to early success since they can both put up the same amount of effort to achieve the same purpose.

Me and Stefan, we’re both digital nomads making content about spirituality. It doesn’t have to exactly be the same career, but they usually complement each other.

For example, one could be a singer-songwriter and the other one is a producer creating music that helps people get through their traumas.

Can Twin Flames Be The Same Age?

It’s very common for one twin flame to be older than the other but they can also be the same age. It really depends on what age you bot get reincarnated on earth. 

It doesn’t matter as long as you balance each other out. It’s important in this lifetime to have the perfect balance between the divine feminine and divine masculine energies.

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The Twin Flame Age Gap

The twin flame age gap is the paradox that one twin flame is usually older than the other.

In society, the man is usually older. But in twin flames, the divine feminine is usually the one who’s older.

This is not just because of a random decision made by the universe to reincarnate the twins at different ages.

There are reasons for this.

When the divine feminine is older, it balances well with the divine masculine energy.

In earlier lives, the divine feminine may have handed away a lot of her power but in this life, it’s important that the energies are balanced.

Having that age gap increases the likelihood of that balance.

Another reason why this is happening is that these obstacles and these societal norms that twin flames claim are here to challenge and overcome. 

On a soul level, you are the same age as your twin flame but in this reincarnation, they happen to be another age. 

Twin flames can have different ages physically but their souls are the same age since they are the result of a separation done to just one soul.

If this is the case with you, then don’t worry about it because like we said, it’s normal and it’s really just a small obstacle to overcome. 

Don’t worry about this because it’s all about vibration. Your twin and you are on exactly the same frequency and that makes you the sexiest woman alive for him. 

It’s not about appearances. He will always love you and he will always find you attractive. 

Now you’ve learned about the twin flame age gap. How old is your twin flame? 

Let me know in the comments!

By the way, if you’re interested in knowing the zodiac sign of your twin flame, here’s the most accurate twin flame astrology reading proven and tested by us.