Marriage is one of the most important checkpoints of a person’s life. It is an important ceremony that involves two people who vow to each other to remain committed for life.

BUT:

Should you marry your twin flame? 

When?

Life-long commitment is obviously a big issue, hence why a lot of people feel under pressure to get it right the first time around. The issue of marriage is not different for twin flames.

Twin flames holding hands

There are many issues to consider if you believe you are in a twin flame relationship. For instance, you may wonder if you are really in a twin flame relationship and what signs to look out for or if the significant age gap between you and your partner is something that should worry you.

Regardless of what your reasons are, this article will take you through some really important things to consider when deciding whether or not you should marry your twin flame.

What Is A Twin Flame?

To get a quick grasp of what a twin flame is, think of twin children formed from the same egg due to the egg splitting into two. 

These are the kinds of twins that are usually identical, and it is mostly hard to tell them apart. 

Yes, that is the general idea of what a twin flame is. A twin flame is a person that has an identical soul to you, like your other half. 

You find that you share similar values, insecurities, and aspirations. 

Meeting your twin flame is like meeting a long-lost twin. It feels all too familiar, and the connection is instant. Because of this, a twin flame relationship is usually intense and powerful.

Perhaps due to the striking semblance, without a proper understanding of what the relationship entails, a twin flame relationship can have its challenges.

This is because it would feel like a relationship with yourself, and so their highs are your highs, and their lows are your lows too. 

A situation that annoys you will annoy them too. That way, no one might be able to calm the other person down.

This is why self-work is important for a twin flame relationship to work properly.

Partners in a Twin Flame relationship must be intentional about making things work. They must also make a conscious effort to complement each other.

When Twin flames work together in harmony, they create a relationship that is solid and potent.

Should I marry my Twin flame?

There a lot of factors that should be considered when picking an appropriate partner for a twin flame relationship.

Despite all the positive qualities of a twin flame relationship, there are some truly undeniable potholes to watch out for.

For instance, if infidelity is one of the issues in the twin flame relationship and either or both partners are not putting in enough effort to curb it, then the issue is a cause of concern and it would not be advisable for the marriage to occur.

Twin flames in agreement

There is a myriad of other reasons why a person may not be a suitable partner despite being your twin flame. A numerology reading would be very helpful in pointing out some of those reasons.

In the meantime, here are some important questions that you can ask yourself.

Are they really my twin flame?

As basic as this question could sound it is a very important question you should ask yourself. Before marrying someone who you believe might be your twin flame, you have to be sure that person is not a false twin flame.

This is because twin flames are rare, and misconceptions about them might lead you astray.

The probability of you not meeting your twin flame at all is very low. So you may be curious about how to recognize your twin flame if you cross paths with them. We have written a comprehensive guide on this before so this is just a refresher.

In this case, you can watch out for these signs:

Synchronicity 

You’ll find that you’re in tune with the person; that is, you have similar energy, values, and moral interests. 

Furthermore, you will find that you’re both connected on a deeper level, and this connection births a firm of telepathic communication between you and your twin flame.

Twin flame synchronicity

Instant connection on all levels

As soon as you meet your twin flame you discover that you’re already deeply connected to them. This realization is so strong that it can cause dizziness and lightheadedness in some cases.

You will suddenly discover that you have a deep understanding of their complex and intricate parts.

Intense attraction

Because your souls mirror each other, there’s usually a strong magnetic pull. 

Even if they don’t tick the boxes, you’ll still feel drawn to them.

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Turbulence

Because you’re technically the same, there tends to be an inexplicable over-amplification of emotions. 

For instance, a particular situation that makes you angry will get them angry too. 

This is a huge roadblock in twin flame relationships that require patience and growth to overcome.

We have another post talking about the signs of a true twin flame connection. The post explains how to tell them apart from a soul mate or karmic relationship as well, as they can be very similar! 

Is it the right time to marry my twin flame?

One notable characteristic of a twin flame relationship is the deep emotional connection. This connection is usually intense and unexplainable; you find that your soul is just drawn to them. 

If you’re lucky enough to meet your twin flame, you’ll most likely see them as your perfect match.

And it’d be hard to imagine commitment to someone else. Because of this intense feeling, most twin flame relationships usually result in romantic relationships.

While your twin flame is divinely fit to be your romantic partner, it might not always be so.

In some cases, there might be a significant age disparity between them and their twin flame. For others, they may already have a happy relationship or marriage before they meet their Twin Flame.

Because of this and some other reasons, the timing may not be right for marriage yet. But that is okay, as the relationship can still be beneficial.

But we believe that most twin flame relationships in this lifetime will be romantic because of the shifting consciousness in the universe from 3D to 5D. Therefore in the meantime, keep working on yourself, hope, and believe.

 When Should I Marry My Twin Flame? 

The question of time is a tricky one, especially in relationships. There are certain  factors to consider when entering into a marriage with your twin flame such as;

Your values: Every individual comes with a system of values that they are well adjusted too, and these values may change over time. As a partner, you need to recognize this.

Sometimes we may lose sight of our own flaws when evaluating others and forget that we are also subject to these changes. Therefore, before getting into a marriage, understand what your partner’s values are and if you will be able to deal with them at least in the short term.

Goals and careers: Although twin flame shares a lifetime mission of service to humanity, they may still have other pursuits that they would like to partake in. Marriage is a long journey and some of these goals that may have been casually mentioned in your relationship can start to take root later in life long after your marriage.

Therefore, before going through with your marriage, be sure to evaluate with your partner if your goals and career paths align with theirs both in the short and longer-term.

Finances: A person’s approach to finances plays a vital role in the success of a marriage. For some investing is where more of the capital should go, while others believe that life is to be enjoyed.

While this is something that can be rectified with an honest conversation, it is not always the case. Therefore, before going into a marriage, ensure that this is a point that you address with your partner

Family: A person’s family plays a vital role in whether or not your marriage will be successful. While in isolation your partner may seem perfect, A closer inspection into his family can give much-needed context to some of their behaviors.

Understanding and accepting familial relations and bonds is a vital point to address before marriage. Try to learn and smoothen out any wrinkles that have been left unaddressed with your partner.

Twin flames in union

A final note…

You may have gone through this article and have come out feeling even more confident of your union with your partner, in this case, we commend you and wish you the best in your marriage. However, if this is not the case we urge you to not be disheartened.

Be sure, If you and your partner were really meant to be ( which is almost definitely the case), the universe will align forces to your cause.

Fate might smile on you, and you’ll get to meet your twin flame at a crucial point in your life. This might be a moment when you’re most in need of them. 

This is why you have to keep working on yourself and also keep believing. The entry of your twin flame into your life and when to marry could depend on the pre-birth soul contract that you’ve signed with them.

Such as a time when you’re in a vital karmic relationship, or a time of great personal depression when you will need their support more.

Reunion may also occur when the universe knows you require a spiritual awakening or self-development and that you need help easing into the process.

At this point, you’ll know that the forces have aligned in your favor.

You can then marry them at this juncture because why not? Who would throw away a chance of such a magnetic and powerful relationship? After all, it’s a union that the universe has smiled on.

FAQs

What If I Never Meet My Twin Flame?

It is improbable that throughout your lifetime, you won’t meet your twin flame. You probably will meet! 

It might take longer to meet them, or a romantic relationship might no longer be possible, but the probability that you’ll meet them is high. 

Personally, my twin flame and I met under a situation uncommon to us both.

So even if you’re not supposed to meet them by a natural chain of events, it is likely that there will be some cosmic arrangements to make sure that happens.

Furthermore, if you don’t meet your twin flame in this incarnation, you will meet them in one of the subsequent reincarnations.

What If My Twin Flame Is Already Married?

Although you will always meet your twin flame, the timing of the meeting is unpredictable. Unfortunately, some twin flames meet after one or both of them are married.

This can be a heart-wrenching experience on both parts.  But, there are two things to keep in mind

Firstly, You should have in mind twin flame relationships do not always have to end in romance. You can have your twin flame as a friend, mentor, or colleague.

The essence of meeting your twin flame is not primarily for marriage but for spiritual development, awakening, and coming in the knowledge of abilities you didn’t know you possessed.

Your Twin Flame also helps you open your heart chakra so you can properly channel your love energy.

Secondly, timing is a tricky thing, and because our perception of the future is imperfect, there are could be other more important points for you and your twin flame to meet.

Twin flame reunions can happen at any point in life, holding on to hopes of marrying your twin flame is commendable.

You have to keep believing and doing your shadow work, and one day, the universe may decide o reunite you with your twin flame.

Conclusion

Summarily, meeting your twin flame is not something that can fly past your head. Even if you’re not well versed in numerology, you cannot deny the connection when you see your twin flame.

Remember that even before a physical meeting, your soul is already tuned to theirs.

Therefore, marriage might seem like the most likely conclusion to your relationship. However, this isn’t always the case as twin flames may still fulfill their mission outside of permanent union.

If you decide to go one with marriage it is important to take your partner’s goals, family, values, and financial behavior into account before marrying them.

There is no way we could fit all the considerations into one article. However, here are 15 books that you can read that can help you in your decision on whether to marry your twin flame or not.

On this note, we wish you luck, love, and light.